Pat Tillman Foundation Selects Golden Eagle for 2021 Cohort
Thu, 11/04/2021 - 04:01pm | By: Karelia Pitts
The Pat Tillman Foundation selected Fabersha Flynt, doctoral student in higher education
administration at 91少女集中营 (USM), as one of the 60 U.S.
service members, veterans and military spouses that makeup the 2021 Tillman Scholars
cohort.
Created in 2004 by friends and family of former Arizona Cardinals safety turned U.S. Army Ranger Pat Tillman, in the aftermath of his fratricide death in Afghanistan, the Tillman Scholars Program is a network of over 700 leaders united by their military service, academic passions and desire to make an impact through service. Out of thousands of talented applicants, Flynt鈥檚 compelling story of sacrifice, determination and potential caught the selection committee鈥檚 attention and captured their hearts. She is the first Tillman Scholar to represent USM and one of few surviving spouses who have participated in the scholarship program to date.
Flynt鈥檚 journey to becoming a doctoral student at USM and a Tillman Scholar has involved some of life鈥檚 greatest highs and deepest lows, but she finds purpose in each experience and draws motivation to keep pressing forward. Upon meeting Flynt, her humble confidence, joy of life, and intellectual curiosity are evident. Her bubbly demeanor and cheerful outlook are a stark contrast to the dark seasons she has endured.
In 2004, Flynt was in graduate school in Mississippi pursuing her master鈥檚 degree in history. Her sights were set on earning her Ph.D. and becoming a college professor. Reading and writing filled her days in-between visiting historically significant sites around the South for her research in African American women鈥檚 studies. Focused on achieving her educational and career goals, she never imaged a quick Spring Break trip that year would change her life.
While awaiting her flight at Jacksonville International Airport, Flynt bumped into U.S. Army Staff Sargent Bryan A. Lewis. She remembers him as a gentle giant with a great sense of humor that instantly won her over. After exchanging phone numbers and going their separate ways, the strangers continued to converse over phone calls that stretched on for hours. Their chemistry was natural, and their friendship blossomed. One year later they became engaged, then married in August 2005. Their fairytale ending appeared to be on the horizon.
In previous years, the month of March held some of Flynt鈥檚 favorite memories: meeting Lewis in 2004 and him proposing in 2005. But in 2006, it marked a series of events that rocked her to her core. March 13, 2006, is a day she will never forget. While serving in Operation Iraqi Freedom, Lewis was killed by a roadside bomb near Rustamiyah. Having spoken to one another on the phone that morning, the news seemed too horrible and too unbelievable to be real. It was not until Lewis鈥� body was returned to American soil and laid to rest in his hometown of Bunkie, La., that the unbearable reality of her loss truly began to set in.
During the weeks, months and years that followed, Flynt struggled with denial and bouts of depression and anxiety. The pain drew her into her shell, and her drive stagnated. The same woman who once aspired to earn the title of 鈥淒r.鈥� struggled to find the ambition to turn in assignments in a third master鈥檚 degree she languished through. Her past self felt like a stranger, and the future looked bleak without Lewis by her side.
Through reaffirming her faith in God, Flynt was able to walk through her loss and rediscover her purpose. She established a scholarship through her church in memory of her late husband and founded an educational consulting firm focused on helping institutions of higher education foster learning environments that value diversity and inclusion for marginalized students. While a career in higher education had always interested her, her passion shifted some as she worked through grief and reevaluated the course of her future.
鈥淢y pain developed my purpose to teach and lead others to a place of solace, a place where their dreams can come to fruition and impact the world,鈥� Flynt said. 鈥淚 used to want to change parts of my story, but now I understand each step has played a unique part in preparing me to serve others. After trudging through my struggles, I am now on a mission to help traditionally underserved and underrepresented students pursue their educational goals.鈥�
Spring 2021 marked 15 years since Sgt. Lewis鈥� passing, and something about that milestone felt different for Flynt. As the anniversary approached, she made up her mind not to let even one more day pass where she remained idle. 鈥淣ow is the time. Now is my time,鈥� she told herself. In March 2021, feelings of inadequacy and doubt melted away when she was notified of her acceptance into the USM School of Education, and in June the Pat Tillman Foundation contacted her to welcome her into the scholars program.
鈥淚鈥檝e had my eyes on the Tillman Scholars Program and earning my doctorate for a few years, but I struggled to believe in myself. Looking at the long list of brilliant and accomplished scholars caused me to doubt if I was worthy of the honor and capable of succeeding in a rigorous doctoral program,鈥� Flynt said. 鈥淓verything changed when I realized it wasn鈥檛 a competition though. The Pat Tillman Foundation intends for scholars to form a community that works together to change the world, and so does USM. Once I got out of my own way, everything began to fall into place, and I believe Bryan would be so excited to see where my path is leading.鈥�
Flynt began her graduate courses at USM in fall 2021 and is working to complete her degree by spring 2024. Through online synchronous courses offered in the evenings, she is able to learn from experienced faculty at Southern Miss about the structure, financing, legal issues, staffing and administration of higher education organizations while maintaining her job as the Walton County campus director for Athens Technical College in Georgia.
She is eager to collaborate with her advisor and other skilled practitioners in the program to research, publish articles and present at various conferences. Through using relevant scholarship and strategies gained through her coursework at USM, she aims to change the trajectory of how diversity, equity and inclusion are viewed and promoted in student learning, faculty and staff retention, and leadership. Flynt鈥檚 ultimate goal is to use her education and experience to rise in leadership and secure a position as president of a college or university. By working diligently on her degree, participating in networking, mentoring and professional development opportunities offered through the Tillman Scholars Program, and continuing to empathize with and guide students who cross her path, she is well on her way to making a difference.
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